Stories of Lost Children
Excerpts from "Harpo Marx at Prayer"
by Saul Bennett, Author of soon to be released "Harpo Marx at Prayer", Woodstock, New York SHOPPING Around the third year following her death in her twenties, you find your child has advanced from offspring to colleague, and peer. As she has no longer a life, discussions center less on events personal, more on those worldly. Imagine, as for example, strolling behind a cart you roll together with her in a supermarket aisle, going on about your problems at work, confiding your delinquency again on life insurance payments, questioning France's motives in Iraq – will, that one's extreme. Oddly, then, a dead child drifts, over time, into a spouse. Odder, you find yourself expressing her response to your view on such topics to her mother, who stares.
MOVE Emptying at last her dresser drawer I fell across a tidy swarm Of ticket stubs – Mets, Knicks, St. John's, Triple A ball on vacations, Rock, the odd horse show. Late 80's, early 90's. Adrift alone In that bog my eye hooked a '96, cheering me, for, after all, dead, She had, aneurysms, brain, dropped at 24 in '94. Or, for that eternity, Had she? Or thought had hooked. Swear. Honestly.
BELOW I was struck today by the number of poems inhabiting basements; shopping for our child's coffin in the funeral parlor underground; retreating to our basement at home, alone, to scream, evenings, once the drug of early mourning wore off; ascending, at last, from beneath to the curb, carting for garbage our mourner's hard box seats, treasured there a year and a month past shiva; journeying down after delaying two years to exhume for Cerebral Palsy her cartoned clothes. Maybe, I don't know, below poems mean to stress to me I live today, as a practical matter, there.
FLIGHT NUMBER WHATEVER On the air a woman whose child went down in an unsolved terrorist fashioned crash was saying No! – she was not a better person for her pain. Worse! – angry, envious, small, ruined. "Where," she ragged, "is justice?" Father of a child, 24, dead, suddenly, naturally, I felt relieved, as another, at least, whom I never would catch and perhaps hope to mutilate had not murdered mine. HOWEVER
Usually the eyes fold first. No longer water repellent they burn just a torch before beginning to sear your insides out. Composure is important. The wet can be arrested if you will only stretch to their limit your eyes, breathing deeply. However, lacerations pierce your throat, a terrific stale burn renewed. at the same time, a certain trailing soreness sets inside your right eye (if you are left handed, as am I; I can't speak if the reverse is so). A vague press upon your stomach could follow. However, your right remains your main concern, though over time – half a minute perhaps – that fire passes, as do you, into what passes for a present, after another unscheduled visit to the bank of memory of your dead child.
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